HOW TO BE HAPPY? - Page 17 - Sai-Ka-Aangan Shirdi Sai Baba Forum

**Gopal Krishan** · #**161** (**permalink**) 24th July 2010, 08:36 AM

“इट इज़ सो सिम्पल तो बी हैप्पी बट सो डिफिकल्ट टू बी सिम्पल” याने कि खुश रहना बहुत सीधी सादी बात है पर सीधा सादा बनना बहुत मुश्किल है!

“It is so Simple to Be happy but so Difficult to be Simple”

YouTube - Bawarchi best scene "It is Simple to Be happy but Difficult to be Simple"!

जय श्री साईं राम

**Gopal Krishan** · #**162** (**permalink**) 27th July 2010, 08:20 AM

खुशहाल जीवन के आसान नुस्खे

सुखी व शांतिमय जीवन हर इंसान चाहता हैं और इसी के लिए वह दिन रात मेहनत करता है। कई बार अनेक प्रयासों के बाद भी अच्छे परिणाम नहीं मिल पाते हैं। यदि आपके साथ भी यही समस्या है तो आप नीचे लिखे टोटकों को अपनाकर अपने जीवन को खुशहाल बना सकते हैं।
- सुबह घर से काम के लिए निकलने से पहले नियमित रूप से गाय को रोटी दें।
- एक पात्र में जल लेकर उसमें कुंकुम डालकर बरगद के वृक्ष पर नियमित रूप से चढ़ाएं।
- सुबह घर से निकलने से पहले घर के सभी सदस्य अपने माथे पर चन्दन तिलक लगाएं।
- शुद्ध कस्तूरी को चमकीले पीले कपड़े में लपेटकर अपनी तिजोरी में रखें। इन टोटकों को पूर्णश्रद्धा के साथ करने से जीवन में समृद्धी व खुशहाली आने लगती है।

Source: धर्म डेस्क. उज्जैन

जय श्री साईं राम

**saipreet** · #**163** (**permalink**) 27th July 2010, 12:40 PM

We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life,
when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about!!!

Charles Kingsley

**sree** · #**164** (**permalink**) 28th July 2010, 06:34 AM

om sri sainathaya namah

never cry for any relation in life

because for the one whom you cry

does not deserve your tears

and the one who deserves

will never let you cry.................

Treat everyone with politeness

even those who are rude to you,

not because they are not nice

but because you are nice..............

Never search your happiness

in others

which will make you

feel alone,

rather search it in yourself

you will feel happy

even if you are left alone...........

Always have

a positive attitude in life.

There is something positive

in every person.

Even a stopped watch is right

twice a day..........................

Happiness always looks small

when we hold it in our hands.

But when we learn to

share it,

we realize how big and precious it is!...

om sri sainathaya namah:

**saipreet** · #**165** (**permalink**) 28th July 2010, 02:02 PM

yes sree ji..........

Even a stopped watch is right

twice a day.........................."

very true....our wall clocked has stopped for last few days(months)....it shows time11:30 all day...we laugh when we happen to see it twice a day......precisely at that time....then we say..see ..its showing the right time......no need to change the cell..........

Staying +ive always counts!unless its HIV..........sorrrry....only joking joking.

stay + ive...
stay coo00000l !!

sairam............

**sukhmani** · #**166** (**permalink**) 13th August 2010, 02:32 PM

FiVe WaYs To B hApPy WiTh YoUrSeLf... ..

1.Don't take others too seriously.Try to understand that no one is perfect.If you feel that someone is too critical,then be frank and point it out to that person.

2.Accept the fact that you are made in a certain way.If you aren't happy with your weight or looks,try and improve on it.But don't put yourself down.

3.Don't try to blend in with others.Just because all the people in your group are wearing saris for a wedding,you don't have to do the same.Wear what you are comfortable in.If you are comfortable in your skin,you will exude a certain confidence that will make you attractive to others.

4.Don't put up with any kind of bullying.Whether it's in your college,work or home, make sure that you put forth your point of view firmly.It's great to adjust,but not at the cost of changing yourself drastically.

5.If you are happy with yourself,then you will be sure of your thoughts and beliefs.You may not follow the herd mentality,but at the same time,you won't end up being different just for the heck of it.

JAI SAI NATH

**sree** · #**167** (**permalink**) 18th August 2010, 10:22 PM

OM SRI SAINATHAYA NAMAH:

Don't compare yourself with any one in this world. If you compare, you are insulting yourself. Don't complain about others; change yourself if you want peace. It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to cover the earth with carpet. No one can go back and change a bad beginning,but anyone can start now and create a successful ending. Easy is to judge the mistakes of others. Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes. If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying? 'Changing the Face' can change nothing. But 'Facing the Change' can change everything. Be bold when you loose and be calm when you win. No one will manufacture a lock without a key. Trust that God created solutions for all problems we meet. Every successful person has a painful story. Every painful story has a successful ending. Accept the pain and get ready for success. Heated gold becomes ornament. Beaten copper becomes wires. Depleted stone becomes statue. So the more pain you get in life you become more valuable. Mistakes are painful when they happen. But year's later collection of mistakes is called experience, which leads to success. Life laughs at you when you are unhappy... Life smiles at you when you are happy...Life salutes you when you make others happy... If you miss an opportunity don't fill your eyes with tears. Tears may hide another better opportunity in front of you. If you keep doing what you have always done, you will keep getting what you have always gotten. For things to change, you have to change. For things to get better, you have to get better.

OM SRI SAINATHAYA NAMAH:

**sree** · #**168** (**permalink**) 20th August 2010, 09:22 PM

OM SRI SAINATHAYA NAMAH:

Be Hopeful,Keep Hope and Hope for the best & Be Prepared for the Worst,are some of the very frequent advises that we give to each other but do we ourselves are hopeful.Let us be as Hope is one of the pillars of happiness.

What's hope?

Hope is knowing that a positive outcome awaits.Hope is not only expecting a dream to come true, but having a deep assurance that it's within your reach.Hope is saying you can.Hope is knowing that you can improve and that you always get better with practice.Hope is knowing that you can achieve your goals through hard work and persistence.Hope is looking to the future with joy and having an expectation of better things to come.Hope is the knowledge that life is everlasting, and that miracles happen every day.Hope is something that never abandons you. Even when your life is filled with sadness and disappointment, a spark remains inside to help you get through the rough times.Hope is one of God's greatest gifts to you, because it's the magic that inspires you to keep trying, learning, loving, and living.

OM SRI SAINATHAYA NAMAH:

rina144 · #**169** (**permalink**) 5th September 2010, 05:59 PM

EIGHT CLUES TO HAPPINESS
By- KHUSHWANT SINGH

Having lived a reasonably contented life, I was musing over what a person should strive for to achieve happiness. I drew up a list of a few essentials which I put forward for the readers' appraisal.

1. First and foremost is GOOD HEALTH. If you do not enjoy good health you can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct from your happiness.

2. Second, A HEALTHY BANK BALANCE. It need not run into crores but should be enough to provide for creature comforts and something to spare for recreation, like eating out, going to the pictures, travelling or going on holidays on the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be only demoralizing. Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in one's own eyes.

3. Third, A HOME OF YOUR OWN. Rented premises can never give you the snug feeling of a nest which is yours for keeps that a home provides: if it has a garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them grow and blossom, cultivate a sense of kinship with them.

4. Fourth, AN UNDERSTANDING COMPANION, be it your spouse or a friend. If there are too many misunderstandings, they will rob you of your peace of mind. It is better to be divorced than to bicker all the time.

5. Fifth, LACK OF ENVY towards those who have done better than you in life; risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be very corroding; avoid comparing yourself with others.

6. Sixth, DO NOT ALLOW OTHER PEOPLE to descend on you for gup-shup. By the time you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their gossip-mongering.

7. Seventh, CULTIVATE SOME HOBBIES which can bring you a sense of fulfilment, such as gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to clubs or parties to get free drinks or to meet celebrities is criminal waste of time.

8. Eighth, every morning and evening, devote 15 minutes to INTROSPECTION. In the morning, 10 minutes should be spent on stilling the mind and then five in listing things you have to do that day. In the evening, five minutes to still the mind again, and ten to go over what you had undertaken to do.

RICHNESS is not Earning More, Spending More Or Saving More, but ...

"RICHNESS IS WHEN YOU NEED NO MORE"

OM SAIRAM

**tana** · #**170** (**permalink**) Yesterday, 11:21 AM

Om Sai Ram!!!

Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed.

Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with Love, Grace and Gratitude.

Jai Sai Ram!!!

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